Part 2 cue cardPeople and relationships

    Describe a polite person you know

    "How they show good manners" needs specific behaviour, not adjectives like respectful or kind. The last bullet asks why the politeness stands out, which means a comparison: with the people around them, or with what you would expect.

    • 1 minute to prepare
    • Up to 2 minutes
    • Samples at Band 6, 7 and 8
    • Updated 20 October 2026
    A neatly set table with a blank thank-you card and a small bunch of flowers

    The cue card

    Describe a polite person you know.

    You should say:

    • who this person is
    • how you know them
    • how they show good manners
    • and explain why their politeness stands out

    Rehearse the long turn

    1 minute to prepare · 2 minutes to speak

    Sit this card with the AI examinerThen the Part 3 discussion, and a full report

    A 60-second plan

    1. who this person isMang Ramon, security guard, our building
    2. how you know themevery morning; found my lost wallet
    3. how they show good mannersnames, po, holds lift, thanks riders
    4. and explain why their politeness stands outsame with cleaners and directors

    Sample answers

    Band 7 sample answer

    261 words · about 2:00 spoken at a Band 7 pace

    I'd like to talk about Mang Ramon, who works as a security guard in the office building in Makati where I work. He's in his late fifties, and he's been working there for over fifteen years, so he knows almost everyone in the building.

    I got to know him properly about a year ago, when I left my wallet in a taxi. He spent his whole lunch break to call the taxi company until they found it, which I was incredibly grateful for. Since then we've chatted almost every morning.

    He shows good manners in lots of small ways. First of all, he remembers everybody's name, and he always uses po when he speaks to people, which is the word we use in Filipino to be respectful, even with young interns. He holds the lift door open for people, he stands up when someone comes to his desk, and if he needs to check your bag, he always says sorry first. He also says thank you to the delivery riders, which hardly anyone else bothers to do.

    The reason his politeness stands out is that he treats everybody in exactly the same way. Some of the managers in the building walk past him without even saying good morning, but he's just as friendly to them as he is to the cleaners. It never seems fake, either. Manila is such a busy, stressful city that people often forget their manners, so someone like him really makes a difference. To be honest, he's made me more aware of how I treat people myself.

    The slips

    • spent his whole lunch break to call should be spent his whole lunch break calling
    Why this is Band 7, not Band 8
    Fluency and coherence
    Speaks at length without effort and gives the politeness concrete examples ("First of all", "He also says", "The reason his politeness stands out"). Not Band 8 because the examples are presented as a list rather than as scenes, so the contrast at the end lands less strongly.
    Vocabulary
    Some less common and natural items ("got to know him properly", "hardly anyone else bothers", "forget their manners", "makes a difference"). Band 8 would use more precise and idiomatic vocabulary, especially for the kind of politeness he shows.
    Grammar
    Frequent error-free complex sentences: present perfect continuous ("he's been working there"), a comparison ("just as friendly to them as he is to the cleaners"), "such a busy, stressful city that". One slip, "spent his whole lunch break to call", where spend takes an -ing form.

    Pronunciation is the fourth criterion; it is judged from your voice, so a written sample cannot show it.

    Rounding-off questions

    Are good manners as important as they used to be?
    I'd say they matter more, not less. When so much contact is quick and online, the person who says please, waits for you or remembers your name stands out far more than they would have thirty years ago.
    How do children learn to be polite?
    Mostly by copying. Parents can tell children to say thank you a hundred times, but if the children see them being rude to waiters or drivers, that's the lesson that actually sticks.

    Phrases worth reusing

    • immaculately turned out

      dressed very neatly and carefully

    • without so much as glancing up

      without even looking up once

    • a kind of quiet dignity

      calm self-respect that doesn't look for attention

    • got to know him properly

      became familiar with him as a person

    • hardly anyone else bothers

      almost nobody else makes the effort

    • makes a difference

      has a real, positive effect

    • a friendly face

      someone familiar who is pleasant to see

    If the obvious answer doesn't fit

    • A shop assistant, waiter or bus driver you see regularly
    • A child or teenager whose manners surprised you
    • A teacher or manager who stayed courteous under pressure

    Where this leads